I read this sentence in a book. Facebook. A few of my friends have written that. And that was something I believed in when I was younger.
That phrase sounds good right. And it is pretty logical. I was going to write that if you that then that’s the end of you. But now when I think about it that is not entirely true.
I guess that words have limits as well.
I don’t remember when or where. But it is a ted talk that talks about it. That people that believe that phrase to be true are more unhappy then people that don’t believe in that.
I believe in research. But I think that if you can distance yourself from your expectations then it’s a healthy thing.